Comments on: I am going to be a daddy http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/ Sun, 29 Nov 2009 01:57:18 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: bp http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-7054 bp Mon, 10 Nov 2008 22:29:21 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-7054 hi dude congrats . i know how you feel i am in same possition , finanicial but also thinking i cant do this . and in mine case this is hard aswell she lives in usa me in europe . but i can say i never felt so good before in my life . u can only do your best , im sure you do great hi dude congrats . i know how you feel i am in same possition , finanicial but also thinking i cant do this . and in mine case this is hard aswell she lives in usa me in europe . but i can say i never felt so good before in my life . u can only do your best , im sure you do great

]]> By: Deborah http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-3211 Deborah Sat, 14 Jul 2007 02:06:02 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-3211 Somehow I found your blog today and based on what I've read so far, I think you'll be a terrific dad! It would be cool if my father turns out to be kind of like you. I've been hesitating to really, seriously, obsessively search for my natural father for many, many years... I'm not exactly sure why. Fear of being denied, probably. But - now, with a first father's POV to refer to (yours), I think I'm finally ready. Wish me luck! And speed - the guy is in his mid-70's by now! Somehow I found your blog today and based on what I’ve read so far, I think you’ll be a terrific dad! It would be cool if my father turns out to be kind of like you.

I’ve been hesitating to really, seriously, obsessively search for my natural father for many, many years… I’m not exactly sure why. Fear of being denied, probably. But – now, with a first father’s POV to refer to (yours), I think I’m finally ready. Wish me luck! And speed – the guy is in his mid-70’s by now!

]]> By: maryreunited http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-1559 maryreunited Tue, 15 May 2007 04:35:34 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-1559 Yay for you both! I found you via Suz btw I an one of her list friends and reunited with my daughter.. I wasnt ready either but you I did allright with the my other ones.. You will be fine you will see! Mary Yay for you both! I found you via Suz btw I an one of her list friends and reunited with my daughter.. I wasnt ready either but you I did allright with the my other ones.. You will be fine you will see!
Mary

]]> By: Dana http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-1055 Dana Wed, 18 Apr 2007 16:55:43 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-1055 Congratulations! I was 19 when I gave up my daughter and 35 when my son was born. What a different experience! A word of advice for you and the little one's mom: talk to your midwife or ob/gyn about post-partum depression. I suffered terribly after both of my kids were born. And it's not unusual for firstmoms to experience it. I stumbled on your blog today and I have to say, it's really great to hear a birthfather's thoughts. My daughter's bf fell in the category of Total Jerk, wanting to bring his new girlfriend to the hospital to see the baby. Dana Congratulations!
I was 19 when I gave up my daughter and 35 when my son was born. What a different experience!

A word of advice for you and the little one’s mom: talk to your midwife or ob/gyn about post-partum depression. I suffered terribly after both of my kids were born. And it’s not unusual for firstmoms to experience it.

I stumbled on your blog today and I have to say, it’s really great to hear a birthfather’s thoughts. My daughter’s bf fell in the category of Total Jerk, wanting to bring his new girlfriend to the hospital to see the baby.

Dana

]]> By: Anon of Australia http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-975 Anon of Australia Thu, 12 Apr 2007 07:28:14 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-975 Congratulations and cheers, never fear our purpose in life is to love and be loved. If you never got it your time around it time to start, Yes you can. I've had the same news more recenly, my first, sorry our first. I pray you your wife and bub all health. Much love Congratulations and cheers, never fear our purpose in life is to love and be loved. If you never got it your time around it time to start, Yes you can. I’ve had the same news more recenly, my first, sorry our first. I pray you your wife and bub all health. Much love

]]> By: Erika http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-773 Erika Mon, 19 Mar 2007 00:43:13 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-773 look i dont know to what god or universal deity i owe for my parenthood and believe me i have days where i feel exactly what you've written here. we dont get to choose how it happens. we can only learn to adjust. we can only allow our hearts to expand. i tell young moms the best fun i had was buying baby clothes and giving her a name. once they start walking and talking it's all over. that's when the real jop of parenting begins. im the first to admit im not the greatest parent. i fuck up all the time. but i think whats important is that my kid knows she is loved beyond belief. the rest sort of works itself out. dont deny yourself this blessing. you CAN do it. banish the bad voices. those voices would kill us if we let em. peace, Ka look i dont know to what god or universal deity i owe for my parenthood and believe me i have days where i feel exactly what you’ve written here.

we dont get to choose how it happens. we can only learn to adjust. we can only allow our hearts to expand. i tell young moms the best fun i had was buying baby clothes and giving her a name. once they start walking and talking it’s all over. that’s when the real jop of parenting begins.

im the first to admit im not the greatest parent. i fuck up all the time. but i think whats important is that my kid knows she is loved beyond belief. the rest sort of works itself out.

dont deny yourself this blessing. you CAN do it. banish the bad voices. those voices would kill us if we let em.

peace,

Ka

]]> By: barb http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-771 barb Fri, 16 Mar 2007 15:30:18 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-771 congrats! congrats!

]]> By: kim.kim http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-770 kim.kim Fri, 16 Mar 2007 00:37:30 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-770 I'd be freaked too so soon after a relapse. Do as many meetings as possible, vigilante the program and get yourself in as strong an emotional state as possible. You have all the important qualitites a dad needs,a huge capacity for love and humility and a desire to be a good dad. I’d be freaked too so soon after a relapse. Do as many meetings as possible, vigilante the program and get yourself in as strong an emotional state as possible.

You have all the important qualitites a dad needs,a huge capacity for love and humility and a desire to be a good dad.

]]> By: momseekingpeace http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-769 momseekingpeace Thu, 15 Mar 2007 05:11:23 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-769 AHHH, what great news! Congratulations. The fact that you put it all out there and are willing to talk about your feelinings and deal with them is a really great quality. MSP AHHH, what great news! Congratulations.

The fact that you put it all out there and are willing to talk about your feelinings and deal with them is a really great quality.
MSP

]]> By: Susan http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-768 Susan Wed, 14 Mar 2007 05:13:37 +0000 http://nevyn.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/i-am-going-to-be-a-daddy/#comment-768 I am really, really happy for you. And I know it will be a roller coaster. But I think you are totally up for it and will be a fantastic dad (you already are). I am really, really happy for you. And I know it will be a roller coaster. But I think you are totally up for it and will be a fantastic dad (you already are).

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